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June 6, 2009

The Point of Infinity COMMUNITY

Do you want to live in a supportive, spiritual community with like-minded individuals?

Would you like to help be part of a NEW spiritual movement based upon a new paradigm of self-discovery and transformation?  (

Are you looking to simplify your life, live with others, and share the benefits of low-cost living? 

Can you work out of the house, with computers and/or telephone? (Or, commute to the City 1-2 days/wk?)

Would you enjoy living on 38-forested mountain-top acres?

Well, we've got just the place for you: The POINT OF INFINITY in the Catskills, 2 hours north of New York City (near Ellenville, NY).  We are looking to have 4-5 residents (we've already got 2). The rent would be ONLY $300 each (which includes telephone and internet services).

A 3,000 sq ft main house with a great fireplace awaits your arrival.

The Greenhouse DOME allows us to grow our own, organic food, and be more self-sustaining.  The far infrared sauna allows for communal gatherings and additional health benefits.  There is also a 1500 square foot classroom/multi-function building for retreats and practitioners.

Two new log cabins offer additional lodging possibilities. 

Contact Ken 845 258 6448 or





The basic philosophy is simple: The Community will stress:




Mindfulness (1) of Thoughts, Emotions, and Sensations, without judgment, utilizing Conscious communication (2).

Some books on which the above is based:

(1) Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Free Stress, Pain, and Illness; also, Everywhere You Go, There You Are, both by Jon Kabat-Zinn.

Awareness, by Anthony De Mello

Heal Thy Self, by Saki Santorelli

(2) Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life; also Speak Peace in a World of Conflict, both by Marshall Rosenberg.

For other books related to the development of Oneness:

bulletThis Is It: The Nature of Oneness, by Jan Kersschot
bulletAs It Is: The Open Secret of Spiritual Awakening, by Tony Parsons

Plus, other recommended books in this endeavor:

bulletInvitation To Awakening: Embracing Our Natural State of Presence, by Tony Parsons
bulletNobody Home: From Belief to Clarity, by Jan Kersschot
bulletAcceptance Of What Is: A Book About Nothing, by Wayne Liquorman
bulletNever Mind: A Journey into Non-Duality, by Wayne Liquorman
bulletAwakening to the Dream, by L. Hartong
bulletRadical Awakening: Cutting Through The Conditioned Mind, by Stephen and Farcet Jourdain
bulletTo Be and Not To Be, by Douglas Harding
bulletOn Having No Head: Zen and The Rediscovery of the Obvious, by Douglas Harding
bulletI Am THAT: Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj, ed. by Sudhakar Dikshit
bulletPointers From Nisargadatta Maharaj: Consciousness and the Absolute, by Ramesh Balsekar
bulletThe Doctrine of Vibration: The Doctrine and Practices Associated with Kasmir Shaivism, by Mark Dyczkowski
bullet Silence of the Heart, Vol 1 and 2, by Robert Adams
bulletAnother Important book just came to our attention:
The Human Buddha: Enlightenment for the New Millennium,
by Aziz Kristof

Important Related Websites:

bullet (Satyam Nadeen)
bullet (Tony Parsons)
bullet (Mark Mccloskey)
bullet (Jan Kersschot)
bullet (Chuck Hillig)
bullet (Eckhart Tolle)

Note: More will be added as found. ENLIGHTENMENT is our subject/object, if indeed there is such a thing. What constitutes an Enlightened COMMUNITY??

NYTIMES.COM February 27, 2006

Growing Old Together, in New Kind of Commune


DAVIS, Calif., Feb. 23 They are unlikely revolutionaries. Bearing walkers and canes, a veritable Merck Manual of ailments among them, the 12 old friends average age 80 looked as though they should have been sitting down to a game of Scrabble, not pioneering a new kind of commune.

Opting for old age on their own terms, they were starting a new chapter in their lives as residents of Glacier Circle, the country's first self-planned housing development for the elderly a community they had conceived and designed themselves, right down to its purple gutters.

Over the past five years, the residents of Glacier Circle have found and bought land together, hired an architect together, ironed out insurance together, lobbied for a zoning change together and existentially probed togetherness together.

"Here you get to pick your family instead of being born into it," said Peggy Northup-Dawson, 79, a retired family therapist and mother of six who is legally blind. "We recognized that when you're physically closer to each other, you pay more attention, look in on each other. The idea was to share care."

The four couples, two widows and two who are now living solo live in eight individual town houses, grouped around an inner courtyard. Still under construction is the "common house" with a living room and a large kitchen and dining room for communal dinners; upstairs is a studio apartment they will rent at below market value to a skilled nurse who will provide additional care. It is their own self-styled, potluck utopia.

"It's an acknowledgment that intimacy doesn't happen by chance," said John Jungerman, 84, a retired nuclear physicist and one of several Ph.D.'s in the group, who is perpetually clad in purple socks and sandals.

"At first John said, 'I'm not old enough,' " his wife, Nancy, said of the commune. "I said, 'You're 80 years old. How old do you have to be?' "

There are about a dozen co-operative housing developments for the elderly in development, from Santa Fe, N.M., to St. Petersburg, Fla., a fledgling movement to communally address "the challenge of aging non-institutionally," said Charles Durett, an architect in Nevada City, Calif., who imported the concept he named co-housing people buying homes in a community they plan and run together from Denmark in the late 1960's.

Though communal housing for the elderly is new, intergenerational communities have been around since 1991, when the first opened in this politically progressive university town. There are now 82 across the country.

In Abingdon, Va., residents are beginning to move into ElderSpirit, a development founded by a 76-year-old former nun, Dene Peterson. The community of 37, 10 years in the making, includes a "spirit house" for ecumenical prayer and meditation.

"I just thought there had to be a better way for older people to live," said Ms. Peterson, who formed a nonprofit development corporation with three other former Glenmary sisters, a Catholic order, and knit together a variety of private and governmental funds (16 of the 29 units are subsidized affordable housing).

Ms. Peterson says she was haunted and inspired by her work with elderly public housing residents in Chicago in the 1960's.

"The elderly were dying," she recalled, "and they were anonymous."

With millions of baby boomers moving toward retirement, gerontologists and developers are looking to communal housing for the elderly with growing interest, building on a generation's mythology that already includes communes and college dormitories.

In co-operative housing, said Janice Blanchard, a gerontologist and housing consultant in Denver, "the social consciousness of the 1960's can get re-expressed." Baby boomers, she predicted, "are going to want to recreate the peak experience of their lives. Whether a commune or a college dorm, the common denominator was community."

Rich Morrison, 79, a retired psychologist from Sacramento State University and the sole single man at Glacier Circle, only recently gave up his hobby, swimming the major rapids of the Colorado River. "Emotionally, there's no reason why I can't continue to grow until I'm 100, if I'm lucky," he said.

Mr. Morrison is once widowed and twice divorced. Like others in the group who have struggled through every loss, from a child's suicide to the death of a spouse, he speaks about now being able to make "heart choices," hard won.

"I've been lonely," said Lois Grau, 87, whose husband died three years ago. "Little things go wrong that he would have fixed."

Mrs. Grau and her friends have known each other for nearly 40 years, raising children in the same neighborhood. Many residents met through the local Unitarian Universalist Church, and they still begin weekly meetings by pledging to "listen deeply and thoughtfully" to each other. Davis is known for its involved citizenry who dash off to their book groups at 7 p.m. The Glacier Circle 12 even partake of what they call a "dream group," in which they discuss their dreams.

Their talents and resources are by no means typical. They are all accomplished professionals, and the market value of their homes allowed them to purchase land and build their dream at a cost of $3.2 million, or about $400,000 each, plus $350 a month in dues. They expect to collect $850 a month in rental income. Individuals own their own homes but share expenses of common areas.

Stan Dawson, 75, a resident who has a doctorate from the Harvard School of Public Health, retired as chief of air pollution standards for the State of California to navigate the project full time through bureaucratic hurdles.

"It was a wonderful thing my dad played golf every day," he said of his father's retirement. "But I wanted to further my life in old age."

The design-by-democracy may not work for everyone.

The architect, Julie Haney, 49, said tension broke out over the color of gutters and trim on their bungalow-style homes. As Ms. Haney explained, "Ann likes blue, Stan wanted brown, Ann hates brown, everyone liked purple."

Ms. Haney, whose own elderly parents died as the design was nearing completion, said the residents forgot things more often than her younger clients did but made up for it with perspective. "I asked, 'Do you want a 20-year roof or a 40-year roof?" she recalled. "They said, 'If it lasts five years, we'll be happy.' "

To be sure, the challenges are daunting. Sue Saum, 74, for instance, moved in with her husband Jim, 84, a retired professor who, during the course of planning the community, was told he had Alzheimer's disease. Shortly thereafter, Mrs. Saum was operated on for breast cancer, and recently she had back surgery. At some point, she acknowledges, her husband may need care beyond their friends' abilities.

"It's one of those day-at-a-time, figure-it-out-as-you-go things," she said. "But creating a community like this, you learn a lot about the strength of the human spirit."

Twelve friends' buying land at age 80 requires a certain leap of faith. By its nature Glacier Circle will change over time. A homeowners association, consisting of one resident from each unit, has the right of first refusal to buy any home when a vacancy arises, for whatever reason, or what Dr. Jungerman nonchalantly calls a visit from "the great father in the sky."

Glacier Circle is too small to legally mandate age restrictions, but Ray Coppock, 83, a retired editor, thinks that will take care of itself. "They'll take one look at us," he said. "That should reduce the potential buyer situation."

At ElderSpirit in Virginia, which will be fully occupied in late spring, spirituality is the major draw. Ms. Peterson defined spirituality as "people finding meaning in their lives, acknowledging ways to give up the ego and grow the soul."

Six more ElderSpirit communities, in St. Petersburg, Fla., Wichita, Kan., and elsewhere, are in planning stages, with some financing from the Chicago-based Retirement Research Foundation.

Not surprisingly, a streamlined form of community housing may be in the wind, as efforts spring up around the country to speed up the planning process, which normally takes two and a half to three and a half years.

Unlike intergenerational co-operative housing, a niche market of about 5,000 people, communal housing for the elderly has "far more market potential," said Jim Leach, president of the Wonderland Hill Development Company in Denver, which is building Silver Sage, a communal housing development for the elderly scheduled to open in Boulder next year.

Dr. William Thomas, who developed the "Eden Alternative," a widely publicized effort to make nursing homes less institutional, is developing Eldershire in Sherburne, N.Y., south of Syracuse, a hybrid between co-operative housing and a traditional development. The idea is to build first and then attract residents who will run it themselves.

Dr. Thomas compares co-operative housing, and its time-consuming community planning, with "homemade bread people get together, mix the ingredients, let the dough rise." He's trying to adapt the concept for broader consumption "100 million people," he says, "buy bread at the store."

Even revolutionaries need to be flexible. At Glacier Circle, where the first tulips of spring are popping up, the group had approved special wall insulation for Mr. Morrison, who has a penchant for playing Mahler's Ninth Symphony at 3 a.m. When the bass and timpani pulse through his subwoofer, his neighbor Dorie Datel, a youthful 80-year-old, just lets it slide. For Ms. Datel, whose husband left her for "the other woman" he met at Elderhostel, this group's wisdom and resolve are embedded in the square footage.

"We've all lived through the Depression and war and the big stuff, so we know that things don't always stay the same," Ms. Datel said. "All of us are interested in living."

Glacier Circle and ElderSpirit are self-developed cohousing communities. The Elder Cohousing Network, founded four years ago, offers for-profit how-to workshops. General information is available through a national non-profit,

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